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Written by Sandy Berry   
Saturday, 17 November 2007

Imago Works in Three Different settings:  Couple or Individual Counseling, Intensive Couples Workshop, and "Getting The Love You Want." Couples Workshop.

Imago Therapy works by developing skills that create safety, compassion, and understanding in relationship. Couples are taught to talk with one another with intention and in a safe structure called the Intentional Dialogue.  By using this dialogue, partner's are able to enter into each others emotional world with curiosity.  This curiosity allows each partner to remain open and to begin to see their partner's point of view without judgement.  When understanding is gained, compassion, love and passion return to the relationship.  And, in addition, we begin to heal old wounds thereby reclaiming our original wholeness.

Individual Therapy also focuses on learning about childhood wounds, how unconscious influences effect relationships, breaking destructive patterns, and creating or maintaining satisfyng and fulfiling relationships.  Individual and couple couseling sessions are range from 50 minutes sessions weekly to 1 1/2 hour sessions bi-weekly.  The cost is $90 per 50 minute session and $130.00 for 1 1/2 hour.  Both types may be covered by insurance.  Please be sure to ask when you schedule your first appointment.

Intensive Couples Workshop is for couples who desire complete confidentiality and privacy.  This intensive is highly effective for couples who are at an impasse or wish to redirect their relationship.  It is also beneficial for couples who must travel from out of town and have difficult schedules and cannot attend a regular "Getting The Love You Want" workshop.  The workshop will be tailored toward the specific needs of the couple and cover topics in the  "Getting The Love You Want" workshop.  This is a one-day 8 hour intensive meeting.  Please call Sandy at (317) 252-5518, ext. 7, to arrange a convenient time.  The cost is $600.00 per couple.

The "Getting The Love You Want" workshop helps couples heal the history each brought into the relationship from childhood, other relationships, and their present relationship. This healing re-creates the joy, love and connection couples experience in the beginning of their relationship. It is an educational workshop, not therapy. The educational format allows each couple to work together and does not require sharing of personal information. The workshop is designed to respect and protect the integrity of your relationship. The only thing you will be asked to share is your first name. And the opportunity is there if you want to share more.  You are welcome to share as much or as little as you are comfortable with.

Workshop Schedule
Days:    Saturday and Sunday
Times:   Saturday 9-7 and Sunday 9-5
Breaks:  Breaks are built in throughout the day.
Continental breakfast and snacks are served each day. 
Lunch on your own is scheduled for one hour each day.

Workshop Format
• Lectures provide a new perspective about what a relationship is, why we need it, and
ways to create safety and happiness.
• Workbook exercises that create new awareness and enhance communication skills
• Demonstrations of problem-solving and communication tools
• Practice times to master new tools
• Short guided imagery

Goals of the Workshop
• To enhance your present relationship
• To develop compassion and patience for yourself and your partner
• To understand how this relationship helps you grow
• To re-create connection with one another
• To begin to see committed relationships in a new way
• To gain new tools and the ability to use them constructively
• To learn how to cooperate with nature and become the person you are meant to be
• To learn why you exit intimacy and how to stop draining the energy from your relationship

Who Should Attend?
• Couples who have experienced a separation or an affair
• Couples who are unsure of whether to continue in a relationship or are ending it
• Couples who are getting remarried or are in a new relationship and want to do this one differently
• Couples who are wanting to deepen their commitment to one another
• Couples who are new to committed relationships and want to reduce future problems
• Therapists that want to learn more about Imago for their clients
• Couples who are unsure whether to invest more energy into their present relationship How Much

What Will I Take Home From This Workshop?
• An ability to identify the hidden agenda created by childhood and what to do about it.
• An ability to resolve conflict and understand why it continues to happen.
• An ability to identify and safely express your desires.
• An ability to play with your partner.
• New tools that enhance your relationship.
• To begin to create a vision of your future relationship together.
• An ability to reconnect.

Location of Workshops.
All workshops are currently held at:
Second Presbyterian Church
7700 North Meridian Street
Indianapolis, IN  46260

What is the Cost?
The workshop fee includes, registration for 2 people, 2 workbooks, continental breakfast each morning and refreshments in the afternoon. This does not include hotel, lunch or dinner costs.
• $600.00 per couple ($325 for LMSW, LMFT, LMHC with 18 CEU's and Clergy)
• Partial scholarships are available, so please ask if you cannot afford the entire cost.
• Payment plans are available.
• We accept Cash, Check, Visa or Mastercard.
   To pay by credit card please contact Jennifer at (317) 252-5518, ext. 5
    To pay by check, please make it payable to "CFLM" and mail to
    CFLM
    Attention Sandy Berry
    7700 N. Meridian Street
    Indianapolis, IN  46260
If you are interested in a payment plan or scholarship, please call Sandy to discuss in more detail.

How To Register or ask questions?
Register by telephone: (317) 252-5518, ext. 5
Register by fax:(317) 259-5718, attention Jennifer Murphy.
Messages will be returned as soon as possible.   

Cancellation Policy
All of your payment except a $100 administration fee will be refunded. This $100 may be applied to a future workshop if you attend within one year.

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